When you write our Project Number on any payments made directly to YWAM, that is sufficient for them to know that it is a payment for the Martinez family. Therefore, it is not necessary to include our name anywhere on a check, money order, or bank billpay. This is so that it shows that YWAM is the recipient of the donation and can show discretion of the gift per IRS guidelines for 501c3.
If a donor does put our name on the check, it will be returned.
If you feel more comfortable with including our name, just make sure to do so on a SEPARATE piece of paper. But again, our Project Number is sufficient.